They say a picture is worth a thousand words, and this may well be true.

But do you know what else is worth a thousand words?

A really well-written dating app bio. And no, it doesn’t have to be an essay - in fact, it’s better if it isn’t.

Read on for our top tips on making your WeAreX bio stand out from the crowd.

We have so many profile features for you to use on WeAreX, from over thirty gender and sexuality options to more than seventy kinks, interests and passions.

However, the humble profile bio still has a place in making connections! Here you can express yourself in your own words, highlighting things that are important to you and explaining more fully what you want to explore.

Some things you might like to write about in your profile bio could be…

If you’re new to the alternative dating and/or kink scene, don’t be scared to say. Being honest about your experience levels is crucial in helping you make the right kind of connections for everyone involved. There’s nothing worse than someone saying they know their way around rope, only to leave you tangled up like a kitten in wet wool… and not in a fun way.

The reverse is also true - if you’re experienced and not here to play with newbies, you can let everyone know that you’re looking for people on a level. Not everyone wants to be a teacher, and that’s more than okay!

2. What kind of relationship are you in/looking for?

This is another great one to explain in your own words. On WeAreX you have the option to list yourself as being in a range of relationships, from Friends With Benefits to Consensually Non Monogamous.

Your bio is a great place to expand on what your current status means for you and any partners you may have, as well as giving you the opportunity to be clear about what you’re looking for.

E.g. “We are a CNM lesbian couple, which for us means that we have exclusively sexual relationships with multiple other partners but we are not looking for romantic relationships outside of our relationship with one another. We play separately and together, so let us know if you’re looking for double trouble!”

At the moment, due to technical constraints, we can only offer individual and couples accounts, so the bio is also a great place for throuples and polyamorous groups to make themselves known!

3. What would be your ideal date/meeting?

Whilst plenty of our passions and interests cover the kind of dates of meet-ups you might like, feel free to get creative with letting people know a little more about what you’d enjoy in your bio! If you’re looking for dinner, drinks and dancing, specify that this means tacos, tequila and salsa-ing until 3am. The more specific you are, the more your character comes through and the more likely you are to make connections with people who want to have a good time in the same way you do.

4. Any hard no’s?

Bios and boundaries - a match made in heaven. If you have any specific icks, limits or hard no’s, why not list them in your bio? It should go without saying that these shouldn’t contravene any of our community guidelines - any hate speech, phobic language or discrimination based on protected characteristics is not welcome on WeAreX.

However, you can list out things that are important boundaries for you, whether that’s about social habits such as smoking and drinking, or to do with kink and sex, for instance that you’re not interested in playing without your partner or that you actually hate having your hair pulled.

Remember, WeAreX is the sex positive dating app where you can feel empowered to bring your whole self to the table, which can include being upfront about your boundaries.

The WeAreX bio is a great opportunity to be clear about what you want and to show others some of your personality. A well-written bio can help people to feel like they’ve met you already before starting a chat, as well as being an empowering tool for you to express your full sexual self.

So what are you waiting for, wordsmith? Head back to your profile and fill out your bio now!